How much can you LOVE?

I was driving down I-4 when thoughts about my past came into my mind; from loving my first boyfriend, to loving my ex-husband to loving other special men that have come into my life that I’ll always remember.   As I was driving, it felt like I was watching a movie about my past and I was able to pick something that I loved about each of these men.  I realized that sometimes we love certain people and we have no reason; we just LOVE them.  Sometimes people mistreat you and you still LOVE them.  I always say “I LOVE you but that doesn’t mean I like you.”  Haha…Why?  Because sometimes you don’t “like” what a person does but you still love them.

I believe when you first start a relationship you give so much of yourself and the love just comes from within naturally.   Just thinking about it makes me laugh about all the things that LOVE makes you do.  Things like bending over backwards to support every idea your significant other has, being their rock for them to lean on and being their biggest cheerleader.  You give and don’t expect.  You tolerate everything because you LOVE them and you just want them to love you the same.  We all have different love languages and many don’t understand how some people want to be loved.

Many people get disappointed with the game of love because the minute someone says hello, they think this person likes them or loves them. You have to realize that liking someone is totally different than loving them.  Loving someone means not doing things that would harm or hurt that person.  Just because people are in a relationship doesn’t mean they are truly happy or even love each other.  

Sometimes we find ourselves giving so much and supporting so much but we can’t get the other person to appreciate our efforts or give us the love we deserve.  You know they LOVE you but, not enough to meet your bucket of love.  That’s why before you find yourself disappointed with a relationship; ask yourself this question “How much can I LOVE?”.

This is GO ALY GO!

Yanira ALY Nazario :))

My GOALYGO Journal: My Dream...

My GOALYGO Journal: My Dream...: It was a dream of mine since I was 14 years old.   The dream to have my very own business.   After working 15 years in Corporate America, ...

My Dream...

It was a dream of mine since I was 14 years old.  The dream to have my very own business.  After working 15 years in Corporate America, I found the courage to pursue my dream but, I also found myself unemployed, divorced, broken-hearted and couldn’t see the light at the end of the tunnel.   Determined to fulfill my dreams, I decided to visit the library and did some research on how to open a business.  I began visiting the library daily, reading different books and using their internet for up to two hours at a time.  I didn’t have the finances to afford internet at home or the resources to afford my own office but, with many hopes and determination I finally decided to open up my own business.

During this journey, many people took advantage of my lack of knowledge and ended up taking money from me.  I came across those that were not willing to share the secrets to success but, I also met people that gave me hope, inspiration and encouragement to take the next step.  I began with running my business out of the trunk of my car, using parking lots to schedule appointments and coffee shops to meet clients.  The library continued to be my resource with very little income to spare for late fees on books.

I learned so many valuable lessons from starting up my own business that it was only natural for me to want to help others and that’s how the GOALYGO Network was born.  I always dreamed of a place where I could feel confident in finding information, resources, connections and guidance on how to start and grow my business.  The GOALYGO Network is home for any entrepreneur.  A place where people can develop new ideas, grow their business and celebrate success.  I’m grateful today because I didn’t give up on my dreams. Today, we are able to share our Business Center with new entrepreneurs and business owners that are looking for ways to grow, taking one step at a time. 

This is GO ALY GO!  

Yanira ALY Nazario :0)~