I was driving down I-4 when thoughts about my past came into
my mind; from loving my first boyfriend, to loving my ex-husband to loving
other special men that have come into my life that I’ll always remember. As I was driving, it felt like I was watching
a movie about my past and I was able to pick something that I loved about each
of these men. I realized that sometimes
we love certain people and we have no reason; we just LOVE them. Sometimes people mistreat you and you still
LOVE them. I always say “I LOVE you but
that doesn’t mean I like you.”
Haha…Why? Because sometimes you
don’t “like” what a person does but you still love them.
I believe when you first start a relationship you give so
much of yourself and the love just comes from within naturally. Just thinking about it makes me laugh about
all the things that LOVE makes you do.
Things like bending over backwards to support every idea your
significant other has, being their rock for them to lean on and being their
biggest cheerleader. You give and don’t
expect. You tolerate everything because
you LOVE them and you just want them to love you the same. We all have different love languages and many
don’t understand how some people want to be loved.
Many people get disappointed with the game of love because
the minute someone says hello, they think this person likes them or loves them.
You have to realize that liking someone is totally different than loving them. Loving someone means not doing things that
would harm or hurt that person. Just
because people are in a relationship doesn’t mean they are truly happy or even
love each other.
Sometimes we find ourselves giving so much and supporting so
much but we can’t get the other person to appreciate our efforts or give us the
love we deserve. You know they LOVE you
but, not enough to meet your bucket of love. That’s why before you find yourself
disappointed with a relationship; ask yourself this question “How much can I
LOVE?”.
This is GO ALY GO!
Yanira ALY Nazario :))
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