I believe we all have fears in different areas of our lives.
In order for us to continue to grow and
develop it is necessary for us to define those fears. Once you’re able to recognize and acknowledge
your fears, you can achieve greater accomplishments in life. Different situations in my life have helped me
identify my own personal fears.
I believe one of the strongest fears people have is the
“Fear of Rejection.” Many people are
afraid to be rejected, avoided, abandoned and to be told “NO.” Some take a NO personally and as a result
become upset with others because they were denied a specific request. I believe the way we react to certain
situations is a result of our experiences. We grow up and are told NO over and over again
and we find ourselves being limited to many things.
It’s important to understand the reason behind a NO so that
it’s not taken personally. I normally
communicate a NO with an explanation. It
makes the conversation more pleasant and understandable. I have been in the sales industry for many years
and understand that sometimes people don’t want to be bothered especially when they
are being asked to spend money. I’ve
learned not to take a NO, from business deals or negotiations, personally. At the end of the day, it’s just a business
transaction. I encourage you to uncover what
situations make you fearful and work on handling those emotions.
This is GOALYGO
Yanira ALY Nazario J
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