Cheating...

                                                 Many people live year after year avoiding the truth.

It’s amazing how some people live their life full of lies and in denial.  I honestly believe that it takes time to truly understand what we really want in life and sometimes we don’t know how to handle certain situations and seek relationships outside of a committed relationship.

Why do people cheat?  There are many reasons why someone is willing to cheat.  I believe it starts with an emotional void in which this person feels they need to seek validation from someone outside their relationship.  I don’t think cheating happens all of a sudden but, happens gradually after so many bad situations have taken place within the relationship.

I was having a conversation with someone about cheating.  This person is in a committed relationship and cheated on their significant other.  When I asked “Why do you cheat?” they answered “I tried to break off our relationship but my partner wouldn’t let me go and there are no consequences when I do go out and cheat.”  I realized that people don’t necessarily want to hurt others but, the reality is that when you do cheat you are hurting yourself.  The other person you’re cheating on may never find out but, you’ll have to live with that not to mention the stress you feel worrying if the other person will eventually find out but some people never do.

I believe people can sense when their spouse is cheating or acting different.   A woman will notice the changes in her man’s behavior and may feel that he is cheating.   The truth is that if you think he is cheating, more than likely, he is whether he “loves” you or not. Many people want evidence when you can sense an affair. I believe people should always be honest with themselves.   For those of you that consider being unfaithful, I suggest you walk away from the relationship and spare your partner the hurt.

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Yanira ALY Nazario :))